On top of talking too much with nothing to show for it, a simple sign of someone being too far in over their head is refusing to tell you their limits or saying they have none.
There has yet to be a submissive who said they didn’t have limits that wasn’t lying. Until the day a sub approaches Me and actually does not have limits, I suggest everyone refrains from declaring such a ridiculous notion.
I’ll say it again: Don’t approach Me saying you “have no limits!”
On top of the fact that it simply isn’t true, I do not have interest in submissives that didn’t do any self-reflection.
If you tell Me you have no limits, I will tell you to pee your pants while you send Me $500,000 at the same time.
Telling Me you have no limits tells Me that you did not think things through.
It’s one thing to be open-minded and willing to try new things (as you should be), but if you have not reflected on your likes and likes you would never be fit to serve Me because I require that openness from My submissives and servants.
Declaring you have a lack of limits is a major red flag for many reasons but I’ll list three big ones:
Doing that makes you a liar. Being a liar is not a good trait for a submissive or Dominant. If I can’t even trust you to be honest about something in the introductory stages, why would I keep you around to bond with you on a deeper level?
Doing that wastes both your time and the time of the Dominant you could have and should have left alone. For example, if you aren’t interested in financial domination and you continue to bother a findom, you look like a clown.
By not knowing your limits and having an idea of interests, you are missing out on all of the Dominants that can make your journey in kink be as spectacular as possible. It’s easier to know how you’ll mesh with someone if you know what they like and don’t like!
To fellow Dominants:
If you turn away a sub because they don’t mesh well with you and have conflicting fetishes with yours and they try to convince you that a “real” Dominant would make it work, just know that you’re absolutely making the right choice to keep that sub out of your space.
Manipulative people who happen to be horny aren’t submissive, they’re just jerks and you don’t have to deal with them.
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