To all of the submissives and fetishists eager for attention and connections, implore you to be considerate of yourself when it comes to your limits and interests in the BDSM realm.
Stretching yourself too thin will be an inconvenience not only for you but for those you wish to approach and serve.
If your goal is to immediately turn Me off and ensure I never want to engage with you, biting off more than you can chew will definitely get you there.
I do not like when subs speak more than they act in the first place, so saying all the things you want/like when I didn’t ask in the first place makes you out to be overbearing and needy, two things that I consider red flags.
For example, I will get calls on My Niteflirt or IWantPhone from horny people telling Me how much they want to serve Me “forever and ever” even though they literally only just called Me that first time and did not even show their seriousness via tips.
Telling Me, a Dominant you do not know, how I “own” you (even though we literally just met and I do not own you nor would I want to collar a submissive I haven’t known for a while) or how you “love” serving Me (when we have not established any form of D/s relationship, you have not paid Me prior, bought content or completed a task) is weird.
Don’t do that if you actually want to be a submissive who serves Me.
I know that people like that get sexual excitement from the idea of submission and not actually submitting. Fantasy play is fun in the BDSM scene and it’s easy to tell when they are just talking out of imagination as opposed to genuinely wanting to serve.
An easy tell is this: they will approach you properly, cash immediately given if required, tasks completed and they don’t mention long-term stuff right at the beginning.
Someone solely getting off on the idea of submission is quick to say how much they love serving when they only pay for sessions and content that please them.
They pay for the session/call and I don’t mind nodding and saying “Uh huh, right…” in response since I know they aren’t serious and I don’t take them seriously anyway.
In the case of fetishists lying about who they are in hopes of you getting their rocks off faster, it is easier to just ignore them and enjoy the time with actual submissives and fetishists who are eager to pay and play within their lane.
Taking time out of your day to argue or try to convert a lying fetishist into an honest one is like trying to catch water in a bucket filled with holes. It’s a waste of time and getting your hopes up like that can open you up to disappointment.
End of part one.
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