It takes quite a bit of effort to be the ideal sub of Mine.
My ideal subs are diligent.
It’s one thing to follow a direction, but it’s another to follow directions well. The subs I like most put their best foot forward all the time and, in the event that something is wrong and they can’t do that, they would let Me know. If a sub isn’t enjoying serving Me, I’m not going to be the one to force them to stay. That’s just a headache for everyone involved. I can tell when a sub is putting minimal effort into their tasks and I will adjust the attention they get accordingly- this is assuming I do not simply tell them to serve someone else with that lackluster shit. If you don’t want to serve but you want My content, just subscribe to My AVN Stars and buy clips from My clip stores! You do not need to be submissive to enjoy My content. You do not need to be submissive to want to pay Me directly or through clips and customs. I would prefer you not force yourself into a role you know you cannot commit to. Wasting time won’t help anyone, will it?
My ideal subs are vocal.
… When I allow them to be. My ideal subs know their limits and are not afraid to inform Me of them. What’s the point of a D/s relationship with no trust or understanding of one another? Of course, they are My toys to play with at will, but they’re still human and I make sure those who serve Me are comfortable in who they are and how deeply they submit to Me. I may be strict and pride Myself on being firm on My boundaries, but none of My boundaries or rules would cross the lines that subs draw. For example, if a sub has a budget of $500 a day and they tell Me, you can assume that I’ll never press you for $800 two days straight (but if you end up sending it on your own whim… that’s on you). I wouldn’t make a sub with a low pain tolerance sit still while I use a flogger on them. While I hope subs come to Me with open minds, the possibility of tolerances and limits having some wiggle room, I have no interest in forcing someone to do something outside of their limits. (Forcing someone to cross their hard limits just because you want them to isn’t BDSM, by the way. It’s abuse!)
My ideal subs are intelligent.
This is not to say they have three degrees and published papers (though they can and good for them if they do). This is to say they are not constantly thinking with their desires at the forefront. Instead, they focus on being the best version of themselves in order to best please and entertain Me. My best subs take initiative when it comes to pleasing Me. They either have a great memory to recall what I like (or have done the work to listen and write down what I like) and present Me with thoughtful presents. Subs I like think less for themselves and more for maintaining My happiness. I especially like men who are with the times- I don’t want to have to walk you through how to use My payment methods all the time. At that point, just send a check of $10,000 or something, you know? My AVN Stars, My ManyVids, My Niteflirt, My Clips4Sale, My IWantClips… All these platforms I have. I accept most gift cards, too… If you dare defile a conversation by asking Me if it’s okay to only send via PayPal, you will never hear from Me again.
End of part two.
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